This is something I have thought about long and hard and honestly, there is not one single thing that I need sexually or sometimes emotionally, that I can’t get from domination phonesex. There are so many choices and Mistresses and various fetishes to explore, from the ones we all think of when we hear domination phonesex, to the more gentle almost girlfriend like experiences. Continue reading Domination phone sex is everything I need!
I’m not sure why anyone ever believed the adage that women are the weaker sex. Clearly it was some propaganda facilitated by men to make themselves feel better. Of course it was only other men who really bought into it. We women went along quietly, still being in control and never allowing you to do anything that we hadn’t already decided was acceptable for you to do. Don’t believe it? Well you just haven’t been paying attention then. Men are the weaker sex and you can read 10 Reasons Men are the Weaker Sex for ten simple and obvious reasons that prove I’m right!
What is Domination Phone Sex? Domination phone sex is the stimulating sexual practice where via phone a man sexually submits to the directions, orders or demands of a dominant woman, femdom, mistress or dominatrix, for his own sexual arousal or gratification. Does the sound of that get your cock hard and turn you on?
Femdoms are also known as domes, femdommes, dominas, or dominatrix. In a master/slave fetish relationship, a femdom is referred to as a mistress. What is a Femdom and what does she do?
Since becoming a femdom mistress my world has sexually opened up to what I deserve from men. My men 
worship the ground I walk on and know how fortunate they are to have a sexy hot mistress in their lives. Read more about why I enjoy being a Femdom Mistress.
Have you been wondering what some of the acronyms and terms you’ve been seeing on our sites mean? If so, you’ll want to take a look at our handy BDSM Glossary of Terms. Even if you are familiar with most of the terms you see, it may be a good refresher for you.
They say it’s the shy and quiet ones you need to worry about and I guess I’m no exception. You see, to most of the world, I’m a shy and quiet housewife. But to a select few, this shy and quiet housewife by day is a dominant mistress by night!
I love being dominated and humiliated by a gorgeous woman. It wasn’t always that way, though. I used to enjoy taking charge and being in control but something happened recently that changed all that. Read all about what happened in Why Do I Enjoy Being Dominated and Humiliated?!
I never really dated much in high school, but all the girls thought I was a nice guy and most knew they could count on me to help them with whatever they needed. There were a few who were oblivious of me or unappreciative of the things I did for them, and for some reason, I wanted to please those girls more than ever. I worked doubly hard to gain approval from these girls even though I knew I had about a snowball’s chance in hell of succeeding. I still really never knew I was submissive, just that I liked to do nice things for them. Now I know I’m submissive and it feels so good.
In all relationships, one person or the other is the one who’s taking the lead. It may not always be the same person who does so, and there may not always be a time in which someone is in control, but the exchange of power exists in some degree in all relationships. Read more about it in Why Do I Submit?
I had been working out starting at 5:30 a.m. every morning at a local gym for the better part of four or five years now and had observed a number of people drifting in and out of attendance. I had always been highly keen to the actions of others, taking the time to observe them long enough that I could pinpoint the different types of personalities; this had always proven to give me the upper hand in my relationships since often I would prey upon the more submissive types of men. Continue reading A Dominant Inspired Workout.
I am a woman who likes control. I make no secret of it. I have a job that gives me the control I need. I dominate my loser husband and I have several lovers at my beck and call. Read more about why I never let him have control.
In the time I’ve been a Mistress, I’ve discovered what makes a Femdom really good at her craft. I’m going to let you in on the secrets of the top erotic Mistresses, just so you’ll know what you’re in for! Continue reading A Femdom’s Rules for Domination.
Collaring, and collars in general can be a very important part of the D/s dynamic. Different collars have different meanings. Many slaves and submissives, when they hear “collaring” tend to think only of the ownership aspects. But there are many other times when a collar is to be worn. Read all about it in Ms. Christine’s article, Let’s Talk Collars.
I get tired of the decision making, you know, where we’re going, what we’re eating, what movie we’re seeing. Every date seems to be one decision after the other. I’m submissive and I need a woman who is ready and willing to take control of me. Please dominate me Mistress!
The man is supposed to be in charge when it comes to sex, right? He asks the woman out, picks her up for the 
date, makes the first move, etc. Right? What if you’re the kind of guy that gets tired of all that dominance? What if you are the kind of man that likes it when a woman takes charge? It means you are likely, a submissive. What Does it Mean to Be Submissive?
From outside appearances, you’re a man’s man. You like sports, watch adult movies on your computer when your wife is out with “the girls,” and your favorite meal is steak and mash potatoes, something you could easily eat 24/7. Yet, you can’t stop thinking about how you’d like your wife to take charge and demand you to serve her. You’ll want to read How do I convince my wife to dominate me?
You have a “type A” personality. You’re a true alpha male; a man’s man. It’s only natural that that would carry over into the bedroom, right? Why don’t you read Does having a dominant personality mean you are dominant in the bedroom? to find out!
Many of these men want relief. They need a real break from the pressures of responsibility, both in their professional lives and their personal lives. More and more of them are turning to the alternative sub/dom lifetsyle. They are looking for sexy, hot women to be in charge, to make every decision when it comes to sex, to dominate them into submission and more. Read more about being a powerful executive by day and a submissive slave by night.
All this talk of being dominated sounds kind of exciting. But does it mean she can do whatever she wants to me and I have no say in the matter? What is dominance and submission, anyway?
Domination, by its very definition, is the taking of power or acquiring of power. Generally speaking when referring to its sexual context, domination is the act of exerting one’s control, a taking of control, or accepting another person’s giving over of control in a sexual situation. Restated, it is a consensual power exchange between two or more participants. Read all about domination and the various forms of domination.
So what is the difference between lifestyle BDSM and fantasy BDSM? Well, simply put, people who are lifestyle BDSM partners live 24/7 in their BDSM roles. People that do more of the fantasy BDSM are not always in their chosen roles. Which one is right for you? It’s your choice. Read What is the Difference between Lifestyle BDSM and Fantasy BDSM? for a more in-depth look at both types of this sexy fetish.
I am a worthless loser. I know it and my Mistress knows it. She is mean and humiliating. I hate her sometimes. But she knows just what to do to make me hurt so good! I have always been a loser. A loser with women, with men, in business, you name it and I have sucked at doing it. I was the one in college that sat on the sofa at the frat parties and played video games while everyone else got drunk and got laid. I have made lots of changes to my appearance in the years since, but somehow I still see the college freshman I was back then. Read more about My Mean Mistress.